The 8 Point Women To Avoid Checklist
This 8 Point Women To Avoid Checklist describes certain women that men should avoid having serious relationships with if they want to maintain a peaceful state of mind.
Here are the signs to watch out for:
- 1. The Control Freak
- 2. The Over-The-Top Feminist
- 3. The Material Girl
- 4. The Hopeless Romantic
- 5. The Man Hater
- 6. The Insecure Type
- 7. Self Sabotaging Type
- 8. The Desperate Spinster
- Conclusion
The Control Freak
The control freak believes that the man has not got the right to do, think and act however he damn well pleases. The control freak perceives rejection if the man has a different opinion.
Given the chance, she will attempt to direct each stage of the guy’s life. She’ll forever be imposing her will in regards to what the man wears, the places the man goes, who to talk to, what kind of friends the man is ‘allowed’ to have, when to shave, and so on.
The poor bloke involved with this beast can’t assert his own rights or boundaries, else, she’ll use passing aggressive tactics in an attempt to control.
Passive Aggressive tactics include but are not limited to:
- The Silence Treatment
- The Withholding Of Sex
- Crying, Screaming, Sulking
- Making Mountains Out Of Molehills
- Starting Arguments For No Apparent Reason
When a woman moves into Passive Aggressive mode, it means nothing other than she is angry because she did not get her own way. She is trying to disguise the fact that she chucking-a-tantrum.
This type of woman can be very offensive in a very nasty way, so tread with caution.
The Over-The-Top Feminist
These types of women assume and believe that men are the cause of all pains and suffering in society.
It’s her conviction that women are a good deal more intelligent than men and are the only ones capable of doing things the correct way.
It would take a special kind of man to spend some time with these strongly opinionated types of women because anything that he does will be judged harshly either in her mind or out aloud.
The Material Girl
She’s only seeking the money or the things that money can buy.
These types of women are much higher maintenance, because they not only expect, but in many cases demand that the man pays for everything. In her reality, it’s the man’s the obligation to pay for things like drinks and dinners, jewelry, trips, flowers and so on.
This type of woman feels no need to reciprocate by putting her hand in her own pocket every now and then.
To put it in simple terms, she is a prostitute in disguise. This type of woman is a self-centered devouring creature thinking that the universe revolves around her, having no perception or interest for the feelings of others. Her only concern is about me me me – The Self.
Don’t get sucked in! Some come along really nice in the beginning until they evaluate what kind of sucker you are. Then the manipulation starts. They drop heavy hints about their bills or some broken appliance and see if this causes the sucker to respond. In many cases they will ask directly as well.
The material girl is also known to use passive aggressive tactics when she doesn’t get what she wants.
The Hopeless Romantic
This type of woman lives inside a delusional non-reality world of romance novels, where love and relationships are perfect and her night and shining armor will always come and they will live happily ever after.
She believes that her prince should forever pamper her with fairy-tale romance and therefore has no capacity to define reality. She will expect the man to take care of her constantly and that all her needs and wants be fulfilled, else, she can turn out to be a nagging bitch.
The Man Hater
Similar to the feminist, she actually hates men. They frequently look down on the man reporting long lists of injustices and transgressions of every bloke they were in a relationship with.
They have frozen hurt feelings from incidents which happened in the past and blame the man in her life today when these feelings come to the surface.
In her mind, every man is a creep, jerk or pig because she has stereotyped men based on previous experiences. This type of woman has boiling point fury at men that can at any given moment explode into rage because she has not dealt with the old hurts from her past.
Men will find it difficult to please this type of woman because deep down she is harboring feelings of resentment against men.
In many cases, the man hater also hates their father but they are so delusional that they’re not aware of it. Women like this should get professional help as soon as possible.
The Insecure Type
This type has a fear of abandonment.
They’ll appear to be very pleasant, loving and adapting in the beginning, caring for men in a loving manor. However, when all her innermost insecurities get triggered and come to the surface surface, she can be annoyingly ringing the guy she’s dating frequently during the day, asking what you’re up to, or that she is ringing just to hear your voice.
These types of women demand continuous reassurance that you really do love her. This insecurity, causes her to needlessly worry about how she looks and how others perceive her.
She can be very needy, requiring never-ending attention and torments you with her fears about you having an affair and leaving her for someone else.
The Self Sabotaging Type
This one thinks that the past equals the future. She is tormented by the ghosts of yesterday.
She’s romantic but has been hurt in past relationships and is not yet over it. She uses her mind to replay past hurts over and over and over again and associates these past hurts as a future possibility with the man she is seeing today. These bad experiences drive her to subconsciously stay away from or damage her new relationship.
In the beginning she’s very frustrating to deal with, she’ll show lots of interest, however heads for the hills real fast. This cycle is repeated over and over again. She’ll flirt and date, but will insist that you both remain as friends.
If she eventually does make a commitment, these old ghosts from the past could cause her to become an insecure type.
The Desperate Spinster
She’s do-or-die to get married. She doesn’t even prefer to know the guy. She just wants to ambush him and drag him to the nearest altar!
Conclusion
If you are a man that for some reason gets crazy during a relationship, it could be that you are dating one of the above mentioned women. This is called getting the crazies.
The only time we get the crazies is when we try to make sense out of nonsense! Keep peace in your head by moving-on to the next woman when one is causing you to get the crazies too often.
Reprinted with permission from Gold Personals.
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